Losing the baby weight!

In a previous post, I discussed the struggles that I had during my pregnancy when I gained 43 lbs. After I gave birth, I initially lost about 12 lbs and at 2 weeks post-partum I was lost a total of 26 lbs.! This was extremely encouraging even though it was just water weight. To date, I have lost 36 lbs. total and have about 10 lbs. more to reach my pre-pregnancy weight. I also want to lose an additional 10 lbs. to reach my goal weight. I am going to try to post bi-weekly updates on my weight loss journey so keep posted to see my progress!

What's has been working for me so far:
1) Breastfeeding
Breastfeeding is said to burn between 300-500 calories a day! That's as many calories as I used to burn at the gym except with breastfeeding you're just sitting on the couch with your little one (okay it's not as simple as that!). During the first 2-3 weeks post-partum, breastfeeding causes your uterus to contract which further flattens your tummy.

2) Daily walks
Sydney and I go on walks each day even when it's cold! Our pediatrician recommended going on walks each day in areas that aren't crowded. He said that walks have shown to help with fussiness/colic and are extremely beneficial to a baby's health. The natural light helped bring down Sydney's jaundice and also gave her some fresh air!

3) Healthy Eating & Staying Hydrated
Sydney is exclusively breastfed and has a pretty sensitive stomach (anything delicious.. dairy, garlic, soy, beans, all the good veggies) so this pretty much rules out all processed food. But - this is great because I am forced to eat healthy! Also, when I go out - I can really only order salads because I'm not sure what all the ingredients are in the main dishes. Besides her sensitivities, I avoid soda and ALWAYS have a water bottle with me. I have an obsession with water bottles and love my BKR (so chic) and my Camelbaks... but nothing beats the huge bottle they give you during delivery.

4) Tracy Anderson Post-Partum work out video
I recently started this post-partum work out video by Tracy Anderson. I LOVE it! I love that their isn't techno music blaring in the background and Tracy's gentle encouraging tone. The video targets abs, thighs, butt, and arms using barre and pilate techniques. I'm happy that there isn't a lot of jumping around like most videos because that is the last thing I want to do right now! But don't be fooled - this video kicks my butt and you will feel sore the next day! However, it is not overwhelmingly hard. I found the lowest price for the Tracy Anderson DVD on amazon for $12.

5) Clothes that suck you in!
My stomach still feels like jelly so I am always wearing a tank top underneath my shirt especially while working out. The Motherhood seamless tank is tight and thick enough to suck me in while working out (and going out)! I still don't completely feel comfortable in my clothes yet and have become obsessed with Spanx leggings. They are truly god's gifts to earth. They are thicker than normal leggings and completely hide my baby belly and slim my legs.




Spanx leggings | Tracy Anderson Method DVD BKR Water Bottle | Camelbak | Britax Stroller | Motherhood Nursing Tank

If you have any advice, please let me know!

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Champagne Margaritas


I found the most delicious Champagne Margarita recipe on The Kitchen is My Playground. This recipe is the perfect summery twist to a glass of champagne complete with a sugared rim!

Ingredients (2 Margaritas):
- 4 T. Rose's Sweetened Lime Juice
- 2 oz. white tequila
- 2 oz. Triple Sec
- 1 T. fresh squeezed lime juice
- 6 oz. brut champagne

For Sugared Rim:
- 1 T. sugar in the raw
- 1 T. granulated sugar
- Lime wedges

Directions
1. Sugared Rim: Combine sugar in the raw and granulated sugar in a shallow dish. Wet the rim of each glass with the lime wedge. Dip each rim into the sugar to coat
2. For Margaritas: Fill a cocktail shaker with ice. Add the Sweetened Lime Juice, Fresh lime juice, tequila, Triple Sec, and champagne. Shake two to three times.
3. Strain into the prepared glasses and garnish each with a lime wedge.

Oops - did I forget that it's cold out?? :(

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Sydney 2 Month Must Haves

Happy Tuesday! I hope everyone had a great St. Patricks day! My post last friday highlighted all of Sydney's milestones and activities over the past month so I wanted to follow up and post all of her 2 month must haves!



Rock and Play Sleeper Tummy Time Play Mat & Activity Gym Black & White Color Block Books | Gerber Zip Pajamas | Dr. Brown Glass Bottles | Gerber Probiotic Colic Drops | Burt's Bees Baby Bee Shampoo and Body Wash

Rock and Play Sleeper - I was always adamant that "Sydney would go directly to crib when we got home from the hospital". Well - Sydney has not slept in her crib once. We brought her home and she was so tiny and her crib was so big! My brother gave me the Rock and Play and we never looked back! His son basically lived in it and I can't imagine our life without it. We call it "the snuggler" because it wraps up around her body, which I think she finds really soothing compared to the crib. This is also great for babies with reflux or sensitive tummies because it holds them at a slight incline. I can't say enough great things about this product!

Tummy Time Play Mat & Activity Gym - This product is the exact type of item I always swore I would never have in my house. It is so obnoxious looking and so not chic. Well.. then my baby came and she LOVES it! She could stare at the the litle octopus, crab, and other creatures for hours. There was obviously a lot of R&D put into this product - the top arms of the product are black and white, which is perfect for little ones who cannot distinguish colors well. It also converts into a ball pit so this gym will get more use than other gyms. The arms also have several different levels so you can hook the little creatures at different heights.

Contrast Books - We found that Sydney doesn't focus as well on regular books, except for when we read the black, white, and red contrast books. We notice a huge difference - she reaches for the pages and actually focuses on the images. We really like this one because its a soft cover book so she can grab it, crinkle it, chew on it, etc etc!

Gerber Zip Pajamas - Whoever invented snaps on infant's clothing is freaking crazy. Aint nobody got time for that!!!!!!! I found these organic *zip* pajamas in a pack of 2 for only $7.00! Huge price difference than the gap ones I was about to buy. I actually bought the same footie set in 3 different sizes because I love these so much. (And they are on Amazon prime so they ship for free!!)

Dr. Brown Glass Bottles - We decided to go with Dr. Brown glass bottles because we heard so many positive reviews. We recently introduced the bottle to her and she actually burps less with the bottle than while nursing! I was shocked because I was convinced she would do worse on the bottle. The bottle does have a lot of parts but seems to be worth it so far!

Gerber Probiotic Colic Drops - Sydney is not a "colicky" baby - but when we were in the process of figuring out what she was sensitive to, she looked to be in extreme pain and cried for about an hour after each feeding until our Doctor recommended these drops. They are probiotic drops and really work to sooth her tummy troubles. We noticed a difference immediately. They are expensive but now I only give them to her when I notice she is having some tummy problems which makes the bottle last a little longer.

Burt's Bees Baby Bee Shampoo & Body Wash - We first used normal baby shampoo and wash but Sydney started to get some baby acne so we switched to a more natural brand. This shampoo is 98% natural and is more gentle on her skin. It also really helped with her acne. Another plus is that this shampoo smells great!

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A Secret Paradise: Tulum, Mexico

This time last year, Kyle and I were planning our annual spring vacation. Kyle was watching the discovery channel and saw the Mayan ruins overlooking the ocean and said “let’s go there”. I wasn’t convinced – I wanted to go somewhere chic and not relive college spring break. So with a quick google scan I found out that Tulum was one of the chicest and most stylish beach destinations. I read that Reese Witherspoon and Gwyneth Paltrow had recently visited so I was instantly down.

Tulum, Mexico lies on the southern tip of the Riviera Maya. It is very low key especially when compared to its neighbors Cancun and Playa del Carmen. There are no resort hotels, only “boutique” hotels with less than 10 rooms. The beaches are “Tulum crowded” which means – they are almost empty. I also noticed that while most of the tourists in Cancun were America, most of the tourists in Tulum were European.

Getting to Tulum is not so simple, you have to fly into Cancun, take a three-hour taxi or bus ride and pray that the bus is actually going to Tulum. The taxi ride was actually fun because you drive past Cancun, Playa del Carmen, and the security check points which seemed to be every other mile. We stayed at Mezzanine Hotel on the “Northern” beach of Tulum. Being first time Tulum visitors, we wanted to stay at the North beach because it was “less crowded” and we were able to see and walk to the Mayan ruins from our hotel room. Next time, I think we will stay in south beach because this is where the majority of hotels/ restaurants are and Tulum is NOT crowded. 



Some of our favorite excursions included walking through the picturesque Mayan ruins on the cliffs, floating through the Mayan canal, snorkeling at Akumal, snorkeling through the cenotes, and massages on the beach.

My favorite trip was a scheduled tour that took you through the Sian Ka’An ecological preserve and floating down the Mayan Canal. After hiking through the nature preserve, you take a boat ride to the entrance of the canal, they then drop you off and give you a life jacket. To be honest, I was scared at first – I thought some wild animal would jump through the marsh and attack me… but our tour guide laughed and explained that this is all fresh water and that there are no killer sharks or wild animals in this area. Beware – if you do this trip – BRING FLIP FLOPS while you’re floating. You have to walk back to your boat on this little bring for about a ½ mile – it feels like you’re walking on burning COAL! Thank god our tour guide gave me his flip flops.




Since our hotel was on the northern beach, we were about to walk to the ruins. On the way we stopped to have some fresh coconuts at a nearby hotel. The ruins were amazing, but after about 30 minutes of what felt like the hottest temperature in the world- we were ready to jump into the ocean! Swimming in the ocean next to the ruins is so beautiful that it feels surreal.



 After the ruins, we took a taxi Akumal, which means “Turtle Bay”. They sell tour guides of this area, but you can just rent a snorkel and fins and go out on your own for about $5. The turtles and sting rays are so close to shore!



Another must is to snorkel though the Cenotes, which are formed from sinkholes. I don’t recommend buying a tour package from your hotel but to actually just go to the cenote site and hire a tour guide there. It is much less expensive this way! I am the world’s biggest baby so I was obviously terrified to be snorkeling through these dark caves but once I got in, I was obsessed! It was so beautiful, you could see 500 feet down. Our tour guide took us to several “rooms” throughout the cenote. One room was known for housing all of the bats. Great. Well he had us turn off our head lamps… bats started flying every where!!


Our favorite restaurants included Posada Margarita, Casa Violeta, El Camelo (in the city), and our hotel restaurant Mezzanine. The food in Tulum was absolutely amazing. It was the best food I have ever had by far! The seafood was so fresh that you would see men bring in the fish swung over their shoulders still on fishing lines!

Posada Margherita was an Italian restaurant on the beach. The homemade pasta and fresh fish were absolutely exceptional. I also loved the appetizer that included several types of bread, cauliflower, and pecans. We ended up going to this restaurant twice. The first time that we went – we didn’t bring enough cash but wanted to keep ordering drinks and desserts, so they let us pay them the next day! A restaurant in America would never let you do that! This restaurant has such a relaxed romantic atmosphere – it is open to the beach, there is quiet music playing, and is only lit by candles! It is a must when visiting Tulum.


My second favorite restaurant was Casa Violeta, where they had a sitar player! We ordered the seafood platter that included several types of fish, calamari, octopus, clams, shrimp, lobster, and the most delicious naan type bread. The atmosphere of this restaurant was also very romantic with a completely sand floor, candles, and fabric draped from the ceiling





The hubs and I had such an amazing trip… I can’t wait to go back. I’m not sure if we will go on vacation this spring but I definitely see beach trips with Sydney this summer! Any tips for vacationing with little ones?

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Sydney's 2 Month Update


Age: 2 Months
Height: 21.5
Weight: 12 lbs
Head Circumference: 38.5

Sydney bean you have grown so much this month! You have gone from the 18% to the 50% in weight! You have grown out of all of your newborn clothes and diapers, but you still have your hair and it is even growing in lighter (I am crossing my fingers that you do not lose it like everyone says you will)! Over the past 2 weeks, you have become so alert! You used to spend most of the day snoozing but now you just want to play! You love to dance, fly around the room, be held up on your toes, do tummy time, and read books! This month, we have gone on picnics, to the farm, to the zoo, and played in the snow. In the past week, you have begun to love bouncing on your feet and now always wants to stand and dance. My favorite thing is to hear Daddy talk to you when you two are alone - he loves you so so much!


You haven't mastered the social smile yet, but you are working really hard on it! The only fool proof method to get you to smile and laugh is for Mommy and Daddy to make lots of funny noises. You love it and it absolutely melts my heart.


At night, you sleep a 5 hour stretch but then wake up every 3 hours to feed. We are going to start swaddling you again to see if that helps you sleep through the night. You still sleep in your "Rock and Play"; we were going to move you to your crib, but we still think you are too tiny for it. One day you will sleep in your crib :).



We are so lucky that you are such a great little girl and are rarely fussy; you only cry during diapers changes and when you are hungry. When I was pregnant, I read that you could differentiate between cries - I never believed it! But you really can, you just know what your little one needs.

You had her first bottle last week and did not like it. Since then we have given you the bottle about 4 more times and are working really hard to get it down. We need to start giving you the bottle to prepare for daycare! You nurse about every 2 hours during the day.. but sometimes more when it is just Mommy & Sydney time.


The best moment was when you first smiled! The worst moment was when you got your first shots. You just weren't yourself after - you were so sad and tired.

I love you my little Sydney bean! I can't wait to see what the next month will bring!

What was your little one like at 2 months?

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Latest Food Trend: Avocado Toast

Forget kale, cronuts, and cake pops.. avocado toast is the latest craze. Sydney has an extremely sensitive stomach which has severely limited my diet (I really miss real ice cream). But on the bright side - I am eating more healthy and discovering new foods! Avocado toast is so great you really have to try it - especially so you can say you had it before it went viral!































Top: Smoked Salmon and Red Onions | Bacon and Eggs | Gwyneth's Recipe
Bottom: Cucumber, Siracha, and Tomatoes | Spicy Steak | Sea Salt and Chives

These are my favorite avocado toast recipes. What's your favorite way to make avocado toast?

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Pregnancy Weight Gain Struggles

First – I want to acknowledge that I am so grateful to be able to have a baby, so I do not want to belittle that in anyway. I wish I were able to say that I was not affected by my weight gain during pregnancy, but I really struggled with my new size.  I was pregnant – it was one time I am supposed to gain weight – so why would I start having body image issues?  I would wake up each morning, go to my closet and cry that "nothing fit". It was pathetic. Obviously my clothes wouldn't fit - I was pregnant! 

So what did I do? After several months of crying each morning... I realized I was being ridiculous. I focused on what I was grateful for – my healthy growing baby, my husband, my family, and my friends. Fortunately, my mom came to visit and took me shopping for maternity clothes. My husband and I packed up all of my clothes that no longer fit and put them in bins in the attic. Keeping my clothes that didn’t fit out of sight helped me get dressed each morning. I was able to go into my closet and see only clothes that fit.

I also found that finding well fitting maternity clothes helped me feel more comfortable in my new size. I am petite so most maternity tops did not correctly fit and came down to my knees (which was discouraging in itself). I found that buying stretchy tops 1-2 sizes larger fit much better. I basically lived in tank tops and cardigans. I also discovered the two greatest maternity pants - J Brand maternity jeans (which you can find on Ebay for $30!) and ASOS maternity pants. These pants are great because they look and feel like non-maternity pants. They are also great for post-partum wear because they don't have the belly band but are still really comfortable around your waist. Oh and it also helps to treat yourself... I bought the Burberry jacket that I've always wanted even though it didn't fit around my belly at the time. It looks lovely now. I also bought "pregnancy make up, pregnancy shoes, pregnancy coffee table"... whoops.. :).



I ended up gaining 43 lbs., which is outside the recommended 25-35lbs that my doctor said was normal. I think this was due to several factors including having severe sciatic nerve pain and thus not being able to work out, extreme swelling because I had pre-eclampsia, and maybe because I ate everything in site.  I lost 26 lbs. within a week after delivery and I currently have about 10 more pounds to lose to get back to my pre-pregnancy weight. For my next pregnancy I am going to focus on eating healthy, taking lots of walks, and staying positive.


I know that size doesn’t really matter – but it does affect a lot of women, including myself. What I needed to do was focus on what really mattered – loving myself and those around me. How did you handle pregnancy weight gain?